My dear blog, i think the new title is more suitable for me.so many things happen that you sometimes ...or most of the time cannot predict or expect what is it actually the end of it. Within the process of it also, you cannot figure out why or how does it happen. as a mother and a teacher, i face so many events....be it sorrow, joy or laughter. They come and go without even u realise it.
This week started with a very challenging problem that myself and my hubby have to face. Basyir, my eldest son,sometimes can be sooooo troublesome...in a way that i feel that he is not good at controlling himself...do not behave like what he should be...a very lazy learner and all that things actually not inherited from me...hehehe. He sms and called us on saturday nite, telling that he has been 'wallup' by his friend....well , some misunderstanding between boys. I was really shocked and of course sad with what happened. This is not the first time he was beaten by friends...or school mates. It happened when he was in SESMA...he was bullied by the seniors. We had a very hard time....sakit hati, marah, sedih bila mengenangkan dipukul oleh ramai pelajar senior di dalam dorm in the middle of the nite,tanpa dibela oleh seorang pun...membuatkan i feel like want to scream like hell.
Last year, he was wallup by the form four and five students after he wallup the form one students who wallup his brother, haziq. itu fair and square lah. he took revenge for his brother. now, he was beaten for the mistake that he did not do. he was crying and asked us to take him out of the school. i know he is still traumatized. we went to the school and tried to settle the problem with cikgu azmi(thanx a lot). he is very understanding and he helped us to solve the problem. we were there until 1.30 am ....outside of the school gate.
For the next few days.....i was uneasy....and really scared thinking about my son's safety. Anything can happen and make me wonder...why him? Well...what i can figure out is that he is so active..like to walk around from one place to another, and he always be at the wrong place at the wrong time.
Luckily, after three days, everything has cooled down. Now we are in peace now...i can sleep and laugh again. That's why i said..life is full of surprises. one day,you can be sooo sad and sorrow,whereas on the other day, things can be so exciting. I am relieved that this problem has over..he doesn't have to transfer to another school....at least at this moment....thank god. What i need to do is to lebihkan doa....pray for the good things to come......insyaallah.
1 comment:
keep the faith, kak ina...
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